I had a feeling you were going to do this actually- pick up on one point I made and bend it to your will. As I said in my original post- 'if you have anything further to say on the matter feel free to leave a comment or email me'. I didn't demand that you only email me in private at all- you could have quite easily made your feelings known in a very public way on my blog without making a massive deal about it- resorting in the type and back of forth we're experiencing now. Believe me, if I could just contact you I would have much rather done it that way, but I can't- we don't have PM on the forums as you know, and I can't send you a gift with a message cause I don't have Simpoints, and I'm not about to buy them for this purpose. And hey, I bet you're just dying to call me a liar now based on the 3000 I received not too long ago, so here's something to stop that mad impulse:
See- no Simpoints, no way of contacting you.
Also, with regards to that bit you posted- why bring Vidkid into it? She's said herself she doesn't want to be involved so what exactly are you trying to achieve?
Edit- after now seeing Vid's latest post then maybe I should rephrase that... If you didn't want to be involved Vid then just what the fuck do you think you're doing? No one dragged your name into this- only you by choosing to comment on it. If you didn't want to be involved I totally respect that, and I didn't try to pull you into it at all- you did that yourself. Having 'your say' on it is involving yourself. Obviously.
And as for why I didn't contact the Mares privately then you can read what I said above this.
Oh really, once again your only possible defence is calling me a liar. Time and time again I have proven myself to be honest, but nope- apparently the only comeback you have is to try and dirty my name. Nice try. I didn't want to do this, but needs must:
Yeah... that certainly doesn't fucking look like WindsorErick to me.
I think you're the ones who fail to grasp the point here. I was able to bring up the 'whole shooting match from two months ago' because it actually involved me. Not commenting on the Kelle/Vid deal was due to the fact that I wasn't fucking here to witness it, not because I wouldn't have been able to post about it in a timely manner. To this day I have no clue what went on between those two, so how exactly do you expect me to comment on it? Unlike you, I'd rather only post about things I fully understand. As you've proven time and time again in the past, you sometimes have absolutely no clue what you're talking about. Jumping to conclusions will only get you so far.
If your only defence of why you didn't make known your feelings about Jess is 'uh uhh we'll you did the same thing!', you're only proving to your readership just how weak you really are. I know people like you in real life- when confronted about something their only defence is 'yeah well so are you'. It all smacks of 'I know you are, but what am I?' to me, and personally I grew out of that juvenile shit a long time ago.
Might I introduce you to my friend thesaurus.com? Hate is a pretty damn strong word, one that I think you might just throw around all too freely... I don't hate Jess, I find her annoying, and I fail to see how 'pain in the arse' could be construed as something even remotely akin to hatred.
In The End
Oh Mares, I'm actually very sorry it had to come to this. The link to my blog is now gone from your page, and I see you took the opportunity to remove Clairezy''s too, hardly surprising considering the way you ripped into her in the past for *shock horror* daring to disagree with you. I guess I should feel happy now that things are all out in the open, because if what you've posted about me in the last few days is really how you feel, I think I'd rather know upfront. Is it that, or is this merely how you defend yourself?
Sometimes the best form of defence isn't attack, it's having the right arguments to back yourself up and being able to do so without resorting to defamation of character. I'm sorry that you don't have that luxury sometimes, but I guess no one's perfect.
I suggest you now take a look at that list of blogs on the side of yours and realise just how few friends you have left. I think though that I know what your reaction is going to be to this- we don't care what people think. Well you know what? I do.
It's all well and good to be strong- to not be afraid to speak your mind- but when it gets to the point when you tear into anyone who doesn't see eye-to-eye with you one hundred percent then that's when your strength becomes your weakness. Is this how you react to people in real life- they say something you don't like and you flip out and remove them from your life? I sincerely hope not. And if that's the case- if you are softer in real life, then why should the internet be any different? The people you meet online are still that- people.
Also, I've just noticed that the main theme of the end of your latest rant to be focused on your favourite subject- WindsorErick. Just so you know, with regards to this: 'what now turns out to be a false confession for reasons still unexplained' I don't think you quite grasp things right. WE did post the anon comments on Jess's blog- he confessed to that- it just wasn't his IP you posted up is all. If you think I'm trying to help him out or something you're very much mistaken- I just wanted people to know that I was telling the truth regarding the IP issue.
You seem to see WE in everything, and the latter part of your post makes me believe that you think I'm in cahoots with him or something? I don't know the kid from Adam, and I'm certainly not about to start up conflict with you on his behalf, no matter what you want to believe. In fact, the only time we ever talked was when we happened to be on Kelle's chatbox at the same time, and he asked me not to reveal his IP.
I will admit though that I was probably mistaken when I said that Jess and WE aren't much different. What I should have added on the end of that was 'to me'. I don't know all of his backstory, so when I said they were similar it was only from my view- that they were both people I had seen cause trouble in the past, probably for entirely different reasons. Maybe if I have some spare time one day I'll read up on what he's done.
Mares, I wish you luck in your future endeavours. Whether you like it or not I'm probably still going to keep reading your posts, because I don't think one argument changes everything. I only hope that, in the future, you can learn to adapt your methods.
When you can count on more than two hands the number of people who are now 'dead to you' then I think you need to start thinking about whether, just maybe, they might be the ones who are really alive.